The problem with using such a broad term is frequently the people you are speaking to don’t consider themselves “guys.”
When you speak to one person, dress for one person, or try to impress one person, other than you. It’s risky, as it’s only one, and it could so easily be none. And yet the moment passes, and the reason too.
Perhaps that’s the point and also the joy.
The world is full of throwaway rubbish. If we are going to throw something away, at least give it some meaning.
Thx Joe